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Why Some female Escort Job applicants succeed and why many fail.

http://dreamsescortblogs.com/blogs/2007/12/23/why-some-succeed-and-others-fail/

I've been in the Escort Industry for about 15 years. In this time I've had the privilege and honor to observe many aspects of the human condition. People can in a philosophical way be converted to a mathematical formula.

You know, A2 + B2 =C2... if you already know A and C you can solve what B must be and so on. In a sense it's really not rocket science if you pay attention.

The other day I was talking to someone who doesn't work for me and she was asking how am I able to tell the winners from the losers with such accuracy.

"Well it's simple," I said. "The women who will be winners I can tell in the first 3 mins of the interview. You see winners all have specific traits in common just as losers have theirs."

From my observations which many may or may not share, this business often attracts people with the least of amount of character, marketable skills and impulse control. For the sake of argument lets only take the lowest common denominator and ask where can someone with no education, talent or marketable skills make well over $160.00 an hour? This is NOT to say there are no smart, educated people with good souls in this business, there are. I hire them!

However, from what I've seen, those whom I've met I suspect the latter is the minority. Think of them as the cream at the top of the farmers milk jug. By the way if you're complexing over what I just said, then maybe you need to look within on a few issues. Grasp this concept, if it doesn't apply to you then there isn't an issue now is there?

I get about 25 to 30 applications a month of that maybe 5 will be asked to call me. Of those five, four will be invited to interview. Usually in the first three minutes I can tell the achievers just by what they focus on. Winners immediately grasp the concept this is a job interview and treat is as such. They don't drive around looking for some place where we can have a "beer and talk". Winners don't major in minor things. They don't give me ten million excuses why they can't, haven't or why they are a victim of circumstance. Winners don't announce themselves with "oh god let me tell you what happened to me" in an attempt illicit or relate to me via sympathy. I have observed the winners do more listening that talking, I can't tell you how many times I just wanted to stick something in their mouths just to shut them up. The women who succeed with me focus on what "I can do" to get to my goal. The losers focus on how hard it is to get there and what an inconvenience the journey will be.

One would think very beautiful women would be great agency girls, the truth is most of them fail with me. The problem with "beautiful" is many appear to have a skewed sense of reality, a warped sense of ego. I have encountered quite often a number with a sub-conscious sense of entitlement thus expecting everything to be just handed to them. "I'm beautiful you all should just worship me, after all I'm the princess the rules don't apply to me." Sorry, doesn't work that way. In my operation there is only two ways to do things "the right way" and "my way" and they are one in the same.

Women who are "humble", attractive or plain have a better chance at doing well in my operation.

Why ?

Easy, their more willing to "Master the basics" and not get hung up in the drama of their lives. They don't have drug or alcohol problems, which I wont tolerate anyway. Public notice... If you're into drugs, have a drinking problem stay away from us, far away. This is not the place for you and I wont enable your problem.

When the winners come to work they understand the concept of "Satori" which means "understanding" or at Dreams Escorts "be here now". Not thinking about whatever drama you have waiting at home. Leave it there, it will be waiting for you I assure you.

This is part of the reason why at the class level Dreams Escorts functions, "strippers" and our target audience don't mix. Yes, there are exceptions, those I would and will hire. Yet so far the "stripper mentality" is a path to failure 8 out of ten times. By the way there is a difference between the mindset of a professional "Dancer/Entertainer" and a "stripper". Any club owner knows exactly what I'm talking about.

During our extensive orientation training I tell all my people BE A PROFESSIONAL! Here at Dreams this is a "vocation" which is part art, part science and a sacred trust.

We are not like other Escort Agencies, we don't have the same standards and we are the safest people to work with in the region. We throughly screen our prospective clients and on average turn away about 35 % of client applicants. Unlike other agencies and agency owners, I can tell you precisely who my target audience is and I wont go outside of that. Most others in this business will take anyone who is breathing, male and can pay. That may get you into most dating sites, bars and yellow page listed escort services but not here.

Yet with all of that, I still witness many women fail simply because "they are incapable" of living up to their commitments to me, themselves and subsequently fail to follow through in life.

I surround myself with women who are winners. Which is why "we" are a success. For many this business is a calling, something they've always been drawn to ever since they can remember. I love my women and together we form more than just Dreams Escort Service, we are the something larger than ourselves.

Life is a road so be good to your follow traveler's and walk in peace Ladies and gentlemen.

Lee ^

by Lee — published on December 23rd, 2007

I’ve been in the Escort Industry for about 15 years. In this time I’ve had the privilege and honor to observe many aspects of the human condition. People can in a philosophical way be converted to a mathematical formula.

You know, A2 + B2 =C2… if you already know A and C you can solve what B must be and so on. In a sense it’s really not rocket science if you pay attention.

The other day I was talking to someone who doesn’t work for me and she was asking how am I able to tell the winners from the losers with such accuracy.

“Well it’s simple,” I said. “The women who will be winners I can tell in the first 3 mins of the interview. You see winners all have specific traits in common just as losers have theirs.”

From my observations which many may or may not share,
this business often attracts people with the least of amount of character, marketable skills and impulse control. For the sake of argument lets only take the lowest common denominator and ask where can someone with no education, talent or marketable skills make well over $160.00 an hour? This is NOT to say there are no smart, educated people with good souls in this business, there are. I hire them!

However, from what I’ve seen, those whom I’ve met I suspect the latter is the minority. Think of them as the cream at the top of the farmers milk jug. By the way if you’re complexing over what I just said, then maybe you need to look within on a few issues. Grasp this concept, if it doesn’t apply to you then there isn’t an issue now is there?

I get about 25 to 30 applications a month of that maybe 5 will be asked to call me. Of those five, four will be invited to interview. Usually in the first three minutes I can tell the achievers just by what they focus on. Winners immediately grasp the concept this is a job interview and treat is as such. They don’t drive around looking for some place where we can have a “beer and talk”. Winners don’t major in minor things. They don’t give me ten million excuses why they can’t, haven’t or why they are a victim of circumstance. Winners don’t announce themselves with “oh god let me tell you what happened to me” in an attempt illicit or relate to me via sympathy. I have observed the winners do more listening that talking, I can’t tell you how many times I just wanted to stick something in their mouths just to shut them up. The women who succeed with me focus on what “I can do” to get to my goal. The losers focus on how hard it is to get there and what an inconvenience the journey will be.

One would think very beautiful women would be great agency girls, the truth is most of them fail with me. The problem with “beautiful” is many appear to have a skewed sense of reality, a warped sense of ego. I have encountered quite often a number with a sub-conscious sense of entitlement thus expecting everything to be just handed to them. “I’m beautiful you all should just worship me, after all I’m the princess the rules don’t apply to me.“ Sorry, doesn’t work that way. In my operation there is only two ways to do things “the right way” and “my way” and they are one in the same.

Women who are “humble”, attractive or plain have a better chance at doing well in my operation.

Why ?

Easy, their more willing to “Master the basics” and not get hung up in the drama of their lives. They don’t have drug or alcohol problems, which I wont tolerate anyway. Public notice… If you’re into drugs, have a drinking problem stay away from us, far away. This is not the place for you and I wont enable your problem.

When the winners come to work they understand the concept of “Satori” which means “understanding” or at Dreams Escorts “be here now“. Not thinking about whatever drama you have waiting at home. Leave it there, it will be waiting for you I assure you.

This is part of the reason why at the class level Dreams Escorts functions, “strippers” and our target audience don’t mix. Yes, there are exceptions, those I would and will hire. Yet so far the “stripper mentality” is a path to failure 8 out of ten times. By the way there is a difference between the mindset of a professional “Dancer/Entertainer” and a “stripper”. Any club owner knows exactly what I’m talking about.

During our extensive orientation training I tell all my people BE A PROFESSIONAL! Here at Dreams this is a “vocation” which is part art, part science and a sacred trust.

We are not like other Escort Agencies, we don’t have the same standards and we are the safest people to work with in the region. We throughly screen our prospective clients and on average turn away about 35 % of client applicants. Unlike other agencies and agency owners, I can tell you precisely who my target audience is and I wont go outside of that. Most others in this business will take anyone who is breathing, male and can pay. That may get you into most dating sites, bars and yellow page listed escort services but not here.

Yet with all of that, I still witness many women fail simply because “they are incapable” of living up to their commitments to me, themselves and subsequently fail to follow through in life.

I surround myself with women who are winners. Which is why “we” are a success. For many this business is a calling, something they’ve always been drawn to ever since they can remember. I love my women and together we form more than just Dreams Escort Service, we are the something larger than ourselves.

Life is a road so be good to your follow traveler’s and walk in peace Ladies and gentlemen.

Lee ^

by Lee —

The other day I was conversing with a client about the problems he was having in his life and business. Most of Dreams’ clients are rather successful individuals not only in business but to some degree in their personal lives as well. This is not to say their lives are ideal but there is a common thread about the type of man we attract.

This client, let’s call him George, was hitting a ruff spot in his life and career and things were beginning to go south. The one thing he has always been impressed with is the professionalism and consistency of Dreams personnel. Hey what owner wouldn’t love to get compliments about his people I know I do. He said, “I wish I had the kind of success with my people you have with yours.”

I thought about that for a second and I said “Well, why don’t you?” He sighed for a second and said exactly what I knew he would say, “ I don’t know”.

Now, I don’t know what your belief system is nor am I privy to your specific model of the world. After all, as the saying goes “there is no reality only perception”. But for a moment, I invite you to enter my reality or personal delusion and walk with me.

There is an axiom, which I believe and it applies to one’s personal life as well as business. ‘Who you are, is whom you attract.’ There is a common perception that you as a business owner will just go forth and find the kinds of people you want and the truth is it really doesn’t work that way. Yes you can have a laundry list of qualities and objective qualifications but in the end most often you draw people who possess the same qualities you do. The inverse of this truth also applies, you will attract individuals who also possess the same challenges. Are there exceptions to this concept? Hell yes! And you can be assured barring conscious interference the rule will win out more often than not.

We can list off the keys to success after all most of you know them. However, there is one crucial part few talk about … Self image.

When I say to you:
“Who are you?”
What comes into your mind ?

If you answered I’m a ( state your race) ( state your sex) ( state your age).
[i.e. ( white male 45)]

Sorry *buzzer sound* Guess again.
Annoying isn’t it?

So many people go through life and they not only don’t know who they are, but also don’t know what they stand for? If you don’t know who you really are as a person, have a clear sense of defined self then in essence, you are lost and you’re just going through the motions. I dare even say, you my friend are just existing.

OK, lets say then the latter is true, here you are in your life and you’ve just discovered you are lost. Sadly, this didn’t just happen and if you’re married that relationship most likely is just a daily habit or at worse yet another obligation. Some people by the way define this as a sell out marriage those of you who are in one you KNOW exactly what I’m talking about so stop the denial.

What?

You think you’re alone?

You think I don’t take calls every day from individuals like yourself who just for a moment want a respite from our collective male world of “obligation”? Sorry bud, but if your reading my blog for a pity party you knocked on the wrong door.

The world around you, the world you have manifested and created for yourself is but a reflection of your inner world of self. Therefore, in my model of the world if I am not happy, if I’m lost and not getting the results I want in life I (Lee Dreams) am accountable.

If you accept this empowering premise, then you also know you can change it.

Self-image is one of the determinants of success and failure in life. One of the elements of training for Dreams people is the concept of self-image and the ideal self. Ideal self is the personality we would like to be. It consists of our goals and ambitions, and is dynamic in nature. Then there is the perceived self of how one sees themselves and finally the real self of who you really are.

The best escorts (top 10%) have a solid and positive image of self. Granted many of them don’t come through the door that way, but by the time you see them my training goal is they will. After all, how do you think Dreams women are able to give you that zone of respite, retreat and reprieve from the daily wearing grind of burden and obligation we as a men are born to carry for that hour or three hours so effectively? Not to put a fine point on it guys however if you got that at home, I wouldn’t be in business. This business helps many of you be the top notch protectors and providers which is our duty as men to be.

Being lost doesn’t make you a bad person, it also doesn’t make you a failure, it makes you human. The way out begins with a simple little tenant I teach my own people.

You have to like yourself.

Every morning you get up, you look in the mirror and you say, “I like myself” over an over and you mean it. Do it while driving, while running and before that meeting. GET WORKED UP IN A FRENZY. This is where it begins because if you think about it, when you invest in yourself by seeing a Dreams Escort isn’t that part of the reason? To spend a short time in a relaxing atmosphere where you can enjoy, surrender and like yourself?

Think about it, you don’t come to see us for uncertainty, hostility, indifference and isolation, now do you?

The most astute Dreams Escort understands this simple principle:

“Attitude and personality are as important as experience and ability. Choose wisely. ”
-Brian Tracy-

So George my man… you want to change your business, first tell yourself “you like yourself”, say it, mean it, feel it! Then honestly and truly find out who you are and most importantly what do you stand for as a man, soul and business owner. Once you’ve started down that path, I know with absolute certainty things at the shop will turn themselves around.

In the meantime, how about a 3 hour session with Alexandra?!! She has this hot bath and rub down that will cause a spiritual revival in you. ­

*Laugh*

Life is a road so be good to your follow travelers and walk in peace ladies and gentlemen.

Lee ^

by Lee — published on May 4th, 2007

Verifications make complete sense to me so I know what I am dealing with and I’m not trying to remember if this Maryland escort service client has really seen one of our people or not. Let’s all not forget that you as clients do not have the same needs we do therefore; it may seem unreasonable for some of the information which we and other providers may request. I can’t speak fully for others in this business and yes to me this IS A BUSINESS, I’ve made assurances to my client base and my staff/personnel for their safety. There are conditions wherein I am not willing to do business simply because it puts you the client and our people at risk.

Think about it. Do you really want to entrust your safety to some less than intelligent independent, person or company who’s idea of verification is a caller ID check and two Baltimore Escort provider recommendations ? This is assuming they even bother at all and not go by gut instinct over the phone. I won’t get into how we do our screening process but let’s just say we have considerably higher standards.

The problem with using Washington DC Escort Providers who are TOO accessible is you expose yourself to undo risk. If they don’t care enough to take the time to safe guard themselves…. Do you really think they give a rat’s butt about you? Yes, life is a risk, but chances are you’re going to some MD Escorts woman’s house or apartment that anyone can just call up and see. Usually for providers it’s not your business life that gets you in trouble it’s your “personal” life. Well, if their mental decision making process or standards allow them to be available to any Tom, Dick or LEO, then what kind of decisions are they making in their personal lives? This being the case. Well, I hope you have an MD Escort attorney on retainer because statistically speaking you are going to need him sooner or later. Of course, if you’re really unlucky, you’ll also meet the local news crew during sweeps week of an election year.

Now, some of you Maryland Hobbyist gentlemen feel that because your “high lord bubba” of PA escort reviews that verification rules don’t apply to you. Well from where I sit, YES they do !!. I’m not just concerned about certain civil servants whom are merely doing their assigned jobs. I’m also on the look out for you morons with less than upstanding character. Having been in this business for a long time I’ve learned that you gentlemen who think you are an exception usually end up getting put on the no business ban list.

Why ?

Simple… you just can’t follow the rules long enough to subdue your own personal baggage and maintain the standard of behavior to stay a Dreams Client. I already know from day one who my target audience is and who is not. Sorry, but if you like to come home and kick the dog, then see providers with flexible morality (meaning you can buy $$ or entice them to make exceptions to their personal rules) or see whom you can stalk and manipulate then stay on CraigsList. After all most of the providers there are either too new, too dumb or too desperate to properly screen clients. All and all for you predatory types, a dream come true. This would also explain why our Civil Servant friends have been having a field day shooting fish in a barrel in many Jurisdictions. I can’t say I blame them who wouldn’t go for the easy out when it’s bottom of the 9th bases loaded with two outs. By the way if the latter comments have offended you and you’re suddenly complexing then Gee I guess it must apply to you huh ? Perhaps, you should take a moment and do some soul searching.

Here’s a simple fact my experience has shown me, Escort Service guys and guys who see Independents have different personalities and mind sets. Guys who tend to see Independents don’t like to follow anyone else’s rules but their own and are usually looking for a moment wherein they can “get one over”. Escort Agency guys tend to be team players and follow the rules as long as the Maryland escort Agency delivers on what they promise. Well in my view the latter is healthy and reasonable and what I intend to do.

Now if your particular provider or Escort Agency are particularly trust worthy professionals then more power to them and it’s working for you. But if it’s not, then time to start asking yourself if your standards are set just a bit too low ?

After all let be candid, if you’re an agency guy.. you don’t seek the services of an Escort Agency for monogamy now do you ?

Life is a road so be good to your follow travelers and walk in peace gentlemen.

Lee ^